For starters their definitions
set that fact straight real quickly.
Husband means house band
so there is no point in using that for a man
and another thing a man is no band.
Wife means veiled person
and there is nothing veiled about women,
especially married women,a lot of them are gossips,
yet not all of them.
So till we find new words for married people
please just call me by name and not by a title
which those two words are,yet not right for people.